VIVA MISS UGANDA
Today,
I happened to be hanging around a Ugandan mothers' online forum when a post of
pure righteous outrage popped up, accompanying it was a photo of a beautiful
African lady donned in a crown and the Miss Uganda sash, so imagine my amazement
when I realised she was not being celebrated for the fete but rather being
cursed for her alleged failure in the looks department.
On
various other platforms she was ridiculed and jeered and told all she was good
at was agriculture (as if agriculturalists cannot be beautiful), and hey she is a former mushroom and poultry farmer. A mother even stated that in the coming years her house girl
could as well participate in the pageant (as if the house girl is not human).
The furor that met her winning was unjustified.
The
fact that the forum that was so full of indignation and dislike for human physical
“ugliness” is a mothers’ group is worrying. What are we raising up our children
to be, children do not learn from what we tell them but rather from what they
perceive. Impute discrimination and shallowness in your child this early in
life and rest assured that they will never depart from it and will have a hard
time in life seeing as the ‘ugly’ people with brains run the world. It must be
noted that on top of her new title and farming one Miss Uganda has studied
computer engineering and science at Makerere University.
This
is not a uniquely Ugandan problem though. One of the reasons that bleaching
creams and procedures sell so fast amongst Africans is because of such
reasoning. Of course if Miss Uganda had been light skinned people would have noticed
her beautiful eyes, her gorgeous set of teeth and her bewitching smile. But alas,
because these attributes were enclosed in her dark skin she is being defined as
ugly and few are even bothered to learn her name. Granted
there were claims of dirty business by the judges but the main issue from what
I have read so far was how unpleasing to the eye their representative is.
This
begs the question of how we define beauty
The
stereotype of what beauty is must be why we East Africans consistently miss out
on that title,
Ladies,
let us stop bringing other women down. If you cannot do it or are not
qualified, sit back and watch those who can do it, do it. In fact cheer them on, that
way you will have your own cheering squad when your time comes.
Alek Wek ;The Southern Sudanese beauty has been described as
the first black model whose looks did not conform to Caucasian aesthetics, the first with an uncompromising,
sub-Saharan beauty.
Ajuma; The accomplished model is about to launch a cosmetic and natural skincare line for women like herself. She hopes that her products will inspire her contemporaries to love their own instead of attempting to alter it through artificial means, such as by skin bleaching.
Congratulations
Miss Leah Kalanguka.
The sky is the limit.
The sky is the limit.
Thank you for not letting societal perceptions hold you down.
Thank you for treading the path where few dread.
Remember,others walked this path before you. Thank you for helping uphold the true African beauty.
What a nice read. Aqua Amanda says Hi!!Loving this blog
ReplyDeletehi Amanda. Thank you.
DeleteYou said it...she is beautiful & intelligent & thats what matters.
ReplyDeleteIndeed that is what matters.
DeleteAnd the writer of this post is herself intelligent, mature and my role model for who I want to be in my thirties..
ReplyDeleteoh! now you made me blush
DeleteWhoever said silence is golden?
ReplyDeleteindeed we do not have to rush to spill all that we think or feel.
Deleteis it true, is it necessary, is it helpful and most important is it KIND.
Reminds me of the song...
ReplyDeleteYou're beautiful, that's for sure
You'll never ever fade
You're lovely but it's not for sure
That I won't ever change
the song is very apt
DeleteMiss Leah Kalanguka you are beautiful! congratulations!
ReplyDeleteshe truly is
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ReplyDeleteI remember listening to Caroline Mutoko once,and I remeber vividly something she said, "The older generation tell us,the younger people one thing and celebrate another totally different. Children unfortunately do not learn from what they hear you older folks say but what they see you do and celebrate." Lighter skin and big bums have unfortunately become more important than any other thing in the world right now....sad sad affair for us,the younger generation.
ReplyDeletea very sad affair indeed.
DeleteLeah is a beautiful girl and i really credit the parents for instilling such esteem and confidence in her.
ReplyDeleteIts so absurd that there was negative vibe about the young girl on a mothers forum! i wonder how they would feel if one of their own came home from school to tell them that their playmate called them 'ugly'
Maliza you have said it all.
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